Dear girl who lives in the apartment below,
I haven’t met you yet but I feel over these past four months or so I’ve really gotten to know you. Weird huh?
You and I aren’t so different – I hope one day we may be friends as we really seem to have a lot in common:
I laugh a lot. You laugh a lot. Yours is really loud laugh but I think that’s a good thing in a laugh. Mine can be loud sometimes too, I’m sure of it. Your laugh, however, arrives at unusual times –like 3am on a Tuesday morning. I suppose that’s good in a laugh; being spontaneous and unexpected. I like unexpected laughs. You know sometimes I laugh when I’m not really listening properly to someone. You ever done that? Like you’re not listening at all, you’re just sort of watching their face and listening to the rhythm and melody of their voice and then there’s a pause and you think that’s your cue for a laugh, so you do but as your overly loud laugh escapes you suddenly realise … NO – this is not where I was meant to laugh! But it’s too late now and they get all upset because they were talking about their divorce / the cat they ran over / how they lost their job / cancer / palm oil and now you look like some sort of sadist – kinda like how you come across when you burst into really, really loud laughter for a really, really long time at 3am on a Tuesday morning.
I am clumsy. You are clumsy. Sometimes I think my clumsiness is endearing in that romantic comedy Meg-Ryan-Goldie-Hawn-esque way … I walk into things and trip over things and fall up stairs. It is sometimes hilarious, often embarrassing, but it just is. And I hear that you, too, have the same issue. I can hear you falling over and tripping over and dropping stuff … Usually at 3am in the morning. Which is another major difference I suppose. I mean, I have fallen over at 3am but that had nothing to do with clumsiness and was not really endearing at all …
I like sex. You like sex. And I am happy that you are getting such GREAT sex – as you tell us, very loudly, at 3am. I understand this. Absolutely. I’m all for self-expression. But I do wonder if the aforementioned ‘self-expression’ has to sound like a hippopotamus with a loud-speaker? And if it does, which is fine if that works for you guys, does the hippo have to have a frickin loud-speaker at 3am?
I like to talk. You like to talk. I can get loud when I talk. Like, I get on my high-horse and just GO and no-one can get a word in and … well, I’m sure you get it. Your vocal projection, however, is something else! I wonder if you are even conversing with someone in the same apartment / building / suburb. That kind of vocal endurance is impressive – maybe you’re an actor too? That’d be something else in common huh?
I like to slam doors to make a point. So do you.
I like to listen to music. So do you.
I like to sing. So do you.
I like to jump and run. So do you. (I do prefer to that outside but whatever)
I like to sleep. So …
Nope, there it is – the deal-breaker. “But why?” you ask, really, extremely, unnecessarily loudly …
Because as much as I like late nights and staying out and drinking and having fun and so do you … When I get back to my place, my APARTMENT, in a BLOCK OF APARTMENTS, all in VERY CLOSE PROXIMITY, I like to be aware that there are people living REALLY CLOSE-BY, like REALLY, REALLY CLOSE-BY.
Because I do not like your
loud voiced, one-way conversations
I do not like anything except sleep at 3am on Tuesday morning…
Please be more considerate.
The girl who lives upstairs
2 thoughts on “An open letter to the neighbour I have not met”
Great post (and great site) – I know exactly how you feel. You have my sympathy. I hope that the attached will at least make you smile:
A kindred soul….
Thank you! What a great post – I think you win … My neighbour is yet to discover line-dancing (I hope she never does) and we haven’t had the break-up (although there have been some amazing arguments so maybe Shirley Bassey isn’t too far off).